Showing posts with label The Beau Advice Column. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The Beau Advice Column. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

From A Beautiful Mind


Within less than a month my views of everything has almost completely turned. My priorities have shifted, My suborn eyes have open, and I have received a great amount of blessings. There are many intense situations that I have encountered that have changed my perspective of a lot of people in my life. I've gotten closer with some and distanced myself from others. One out of many lessons I have learned: Only a handful of people can handle a real friend. Some are just accustomed to associates and fake friends. People always wonder why others are always more than willing to become close with Beau Averee. They now know why. Everyone has different definitions of what a friend is. Mine is definitely more family-like than associate-like. If I wanted you to be an associate then I would refer to you as so. I thought that the efforts I put into so many friendships would make a difference, they did, but not the difference I would have liked. Instead I got clarity of people's true intentions and colors. Now I'm always a positive person but I was constantly slammed with negative energy. I overcome. I always asked myself "why do I always over look the ones that I really should be close with and tend to go after the ones who I feel there is a story behind?" There is a story behind everyone. I thought and stated that I needed my best friend. That statement is false. I didn't lie, my emotions steered me wrong. I'm not modest enough not to state that I'am a strong human. There are many mistakes I have made but I'm not perfect. Those mistakes that I gladly endured became a shovel to dig out my own path to where I need to be. Where I wanted to be was definitely not where I needed to be.

"We as human sometimes lose touch of reality and tend to build our own world. A world that revolves around us that denies what is in front of us."- Beau Averee

There are so many people that have came into my life to destroy it and deliver negativity. I'm the kind of person who likes to see the good in people. I believe that I can be the one that can get through steel walls and cross over alligator infested moats. At the end I end up swallowing my words. I have done a great amount of things for people but never have I once asked for anything in return but appreciation. I've had so many people that just take, take, take, and take then I explode. People sure take my kindness for weakness but little do they know it doesn't take much for me to forget them. I will remain generous and kind but now I know who to deliver these things to.


As of today, I have no expectations of people, this way there is no way of me becoming disappointed. I'm letting people play the role they intend to play in my life. I'm not forcing, asking, repeating, and definitely not tolerating anything that isn't meant to be. I'm more focused on MY life. I have a lot going for me and I intend on reaching impossible levels with or without anyone. I'm bringing people close to me who inspire, motivate, and push me to be a better person. So far I have a few that have been here with me since the beginning. I'm ready to move mountains with my energy and I shall. There is a long and foggy road infront of me but I have the sun right behind me. I have embraced. I have accepted. I have grown.

"My life is like wine."-Beau Averee

Saturday, May 30, 2009

"Paparazzi" & Big Dicks





Lady GaGa's new music video "Paparazzi" has already been labeled as epic! The video was leaked by God knows who, Damn these leakers! GaGa recently wrote on her Twitter, "Stop leaking my motherfucking videos". Whelp, too late. The media has their hands on this masterpiece and it's being circulated throughout blogs all over the world. "Paparazzi", I love. Paparazzi, I don't.

From watching the video I love how GaGa expressed how you REALLY get on top in the industry, by being scandalous! The mini movie truely is the new movement that is art, GaGa. Artist now a days lack art. They lack expression beyond what vocal cords can vibrate and beyond what image can give you. Art in music is dieing. GaGa has managed to rapidly recover and pick up where many may say Worhol left off.






This is why I f*ck with GaGa. All a relationship needs is a "Big dick"? well at least for GaGa it does. My kind of relationship is far much more complex than sexual needs but, my faithful readers already know how I "gets down" when it comes to sex. Can't touch this. GaGa stated what I have been saying since I was in my mother's uterus! Relationships are a distraction!!! Why do people worry about being in a relationship when there is so much greater things to accomplish? Don't get me wrong, being "In love" is grand and all but, I'd much rather establish myself and complete my long term goals rather than baby relationships that deserves much time, effort, and sweat to keep stable. "Not to me!" I'm extremely blessed to be in a relationship that is definitely far from what the average person can process. As I always say "I'm not lucky, I'm smart".

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Pussycat Dolls- "Hush Hush"



The Pussycat Dolls new single, "Hush Hush" now has a video to accompany it! I really wasn't feeling the original slow version of this song, before they remixed it and marketed it as a single. The video itself is a very theatrical one. My favorite part is when two of the members were swinging on the chandelier while Nicole was, of course, single in the middle. When are they going to give the rest of the Pussys some light?

How do you feel about the video?

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Dancing With GaGa-Vision On



Lady GaGa perfomed her latest hit, "Love Game", on Dancing With The Stars with quite a revamped look, as always. You guys already know how I feel about this artist! I think I have played her records too much because I'm tired of her whole album. I played Pokerface, no lie, about twenty times a day! I never really felt Pop music could really have such effect on me but, once this beast appeared on the scene I was on it! My current favorite Lady GaGa record is "Wonderful" and "Brown Eyes". I can't wait until she has a REAL tour with a great budget!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

The Good Life: Solo Edition

Solange seems to be have had tons of fun in Barcelona! Solo, her son Juelz, and her band are now on tour! Currently in Paris. Who says you can't mix business with pleasure? These pictures truly inspire me and this summer I hope to be on the road wayy more! It's great to live life and travel with people who love you.

Now if that doesn't look finger lickin' good!

Maybe I should listen to my father and take time out to travel with him.

I know "Make-up Forever" when I see it!


Sol-angel & The Hadley Street Dreams.

Sunday, April 19, 2009

A Kiss Is A Quiet " I Love You "


Hello readers! I'm in the process of making a lot of moves dealing with my career. I haven't really spoken to anyone about what I'm doing but, I'll just say that everything is going to change! It's not going to happen overnight but, I'm just keeping VERY positive and secretive about this...shhhh!... I'm turnin' tables up in this bitch! I'm loving life right now, as I always do! Things are where they should be and I'm truly grateful for everything I have been blessed with. A lot has been on my mind about certain situations that I'm torn about. I have no regrets, ever. I view everything as a lesson and a stepping stone. My life wouldn't be how it is if I dwell on a lot of things that have occurred. Some decisions may hurt but, in the end, I'm happy and that's all that matters, right? right.

My love life...*GASP*... Yes, love life!!, is going AMAZING! It's a great thing when two souls that have an extreme amount to offer come together as one. I never really thought I would be able to have someone that adds on to who I'am. No one completes you but you. I don't depend on anyone for anything! I have learned not to expect anything from anyone. If you can't add to my being then why bother? Gladly, I have a secret place to retreat to. We shall be the ultimate power couple!

Kiss....I kiss you there and I feel it here....I've never wasted a kiss, ever. I never comprehended how people can just be at nightclubs and " make-out". Your body is a temple and if you choose to grant access to someone....make sure they respect and cherish it! A kiss allows two body energies to zap at a touch of lips. It purifies your love zone while booting your Kama Sutra levels. To me sex and kissing is giving up a piece of who you are. Too bad not many people can really indulge in the true meaning of a kiss and the genuine definition of SEX. The secret behind a perfect kiss? you have to mean it.

A kiss is a quiet " I love you".

Photo by: Theodore Urban, Welcome back from Italy!.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Hungry For Something Wonderful



This record mean so much to me at this time. I know have disciplined my emotions to the life I live. I embarked on a journey that seemed to be impossible in the past. Im learning that the standards I hold for potentials isn't as selfish as many claim. I spoke to my bestfriend about a phone call I recieved that almost shattered my being. At the same time I learned that my life and emotions are blooming and definitely maturing. My life is becoming greater and greater but the only problem is that the process may take longer because I now know I tend to really over think things. I also know that the thoughts don't just rush my mind just because. There is always a meaning behind every thought, word, gesture, look, and uknown emotion. I limited myself from many great things. The idea of having a " type" used to make sense to me but now it's just plain outdated for me. You can find true happiness in some people you may NEVER think would deliver such satisfaction. If we limit ourselves then we are settling. Who I was is far from who I'm becoming.

"I wrote a song about your eyes
Ate a slice of cherry pie
I cried all night"

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Test Your Love


Over the years the term "Relationship", rather it be a friend or someone you're intimate with, has drastically changed. Let us go back to the 50s when divorce was a totaly NO! NO! People got married at the ripe age of 17 or 18 and even if they were happy or not they would sacrifice all they had just so they could avoid the deadly social suicide, divorce. Now today it seems as though relationships last a milisecond and even if they last for months or even years, either they have cheated, don't take the relationship as serious, are just with the person to fill an empty void ( as many people do), or they just dont want to carry that gross label on their forehead, SINGLE. Now let me not be so melodramatic about relationships because through my lifetime I've witnessed a handful of relationships that are worth to admire. Relationships aren't always going to perfect but when I look at the relationships around me its like " Why do people even bother being in one?."NO ONE IS LOYAL AND FAITHFUL, trust me. My outlook on relationships isnt completely in this light! I have been in a few long relationships that have taught me something that no other experience would be able to BUT the most precious lesson I have learned is- You have to love yourself entirely before getting into a relationship because if they can't add to that genuine love that you have for yourself then give 'em the boot!

I'am single and I plan to be for a very long time. I LOVE it this way! Im also completely thankful for my friends relationships because I use them as examples to why Im not in one ( No shade just enlightment), but just recently my best friend has gotten into a " relationship" and its rays of light has made its way through my tunnel. The notion of NO ONE IS LOYAL AND FAITHFUL has kind of turned, slightly.

Look at yourself in the mirror and ask these questions to yourself ( don't worry you're not crazy)

MILLION DOLLAR QUESTIONS:

Do you love yourself completely?

Do you think that it would take a long time for you to get over your partner?

Do you and your partner have a steady income to support a decent lifestyle?

Do you and your partner go out on dates and tell eachother how much you appreciate each other?

If you've answered no to more than two questions then you know the answer.

See with these four questios you have your first question which is love, second which is loyalty, third which is being wise about your present and future, and Fourth which is your communication.

Test it out!

Peace, Love, and, Sex

Beau Averee

Friday, November 14, 2008

Want To Travel Anywhere You Want For Free?

In astral projection the astral body leaves the physical. The astral body is one of seven sheath
bodies we all have - as we are all multi-dimensional. These bodies include the physical, mental, causal, etheric, emotional, spiritual.
What I have found is that some people can astral project naturally - and have been doing it for years. Other people are afraid to leave the physical body and struggle with it never being able to astral project. These people should try remote viewing as an alternative.
In astral projection you remain attached by a silver "umbilical type" cord to your physical body - though you may not see it. You travel out and are aware of things you encounter along the way.
To astral project, as with all out-of-body experiences one must feel totally relaxed, clothing fitting comfortable, reclining is best. Often a comforter is best over the body as the physical body sometimes gets cold when you travel out. You can practice alone or with one person. Find a quiet place . . . free of distractions. . . Adjust the lighting and room temperature. . . Adjust clothing . . . footwear . . . eyeglasses. Sit down or lie down . . . Find a position that is comfortable for you . . . Quiet your mind . . . Still your thoughts . . . Relax your body. . . Your face . . . your jaw . . . relaxing . . . Your shoulders . . . your neck . . . relaxed Your arms . . . your hands . . . feel at peace . . . Your torso . . . your hips . . . letting go . . . Your legs . . . your feet . . . totally relaxed . . . Focus on your breathing . . . Inhale slowly and deeply through your nose . . . Retain the breath as long as is comfortable . . . Exhale through the mouth slowly and completely . . . Repeat for two more breaths . . . or as is comfortable.
Let go of the fear of leaving your physical body. Remember you do it when you sleep.
See yourself floating away from your physical body. You may feel as release or perhaps hear a sound as you leave.

Beau Averee

Weekly Figures

Song Of The Week:

Bumpin' to Sasha Fierce's- Ego

"I Like To Think I Was Created"


Quote Of The Week:

"Work Hard, Play Later"


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Drink Of The Week: Between the Sheets


Ingredients:

Amount
Ingredient (Click ingredient for more recipes)
1 Shot
White Rum
1 Shot
De Kuyper Triple Sec
1 Shot
Three Barrels Brandy
1 Shot
Lemon Juice
1 tsp sugar


Type/Flavour:
Fruity
Glass:
Martini
Difficulty:
Medium

PreparationShake in ice. Strain into Martini glass.

This is quick and easy cocktail to mix on those days when you have no time to go out and buy supplies and an uninvited guest shows up lol..let's just hope you won't end up quick and easy.

Click on the links to get recipes on cocktails that contain that specific ingredient.


Random Thought:
" I wonder if other people like getting the Charlie Horse Leg during sex?"

Peace, Love, Music, And Sex
Beau Averee

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Master This Lesson



"Ive been waiting all my life to finally find you just so I can push you away.. And when you're crawling back through broken glass to get to me.. thats when I'll let you stay.."


When I was free writing a few years back a wrote a dramatic poem that included this piece. I stumbled upon alot of material I had totally forgot about! This fraction of a poem stood out to me for the simple fact that I still feel the same way when it comes to the being worthy of my embrace. Not that I'm self-absorbed or anything but I know that in today's world you can't just declare emotions- you have to prove them.

Its definitely not an ego as many people would think.

Today's society is so wrapped up in sex that they have lost their true values. the meaning of love has diminished. couples aren't lasting. People are getting divorced. People are scared to step out of their comfort zone and look beyond societies standards to look for genuine happiness. They settle for what holds them up for that time period. Don't get me wrong- SEX IS IMPORTANT! But it shouldn't justify a breakup or keep you in an unhappy relationship.

Solution: TEACH THEM! or call me! I know a thing or two about how to keep it spicy in the sheets!


Besides Sex, People aren't trying hard enough these days. I know that the economy is in bad shape but don't let that discourage you! Barack Obama IS President now you know! BE PATIENT! Economy isn't the only one in bad shape as you can see- so is love.

As the Japanese lady in the spa tells me while doing my facial " Be Patient!" * In an Asian accent*.

What does my quote make you think about?

LOVE, Peace, Music, and SEX

Beau Averee

Friday, October 10, 2008

Random Thought Of The Day: Escalators Were Designed for Lazy People.



So as Im rushing to work this afternoon I try to speed walk up the escalator when this huge woman cuts in front of me and just stands there!

Why do people do that!? I wanted to say " Oh Sure!, Trust Me Auntie Anne's Isn't Going Anywhere!" But I kept my cool.

I realized all this time I used these devices, I was just being lazy! I understand that some people are old or others are tired but for the rest you're just plain lazy!

Like you can't get a little bit of exercise and walk up stairs?..FATASS

THIS IS WHY AMERICA IS CORPULENT.

Peace, Love, Music And Sex

Beau Averee

The Taboo: Beau Averee


Well the Viper Crimson In me never died but I have brewed up yet another character that seems to be taking control over my live and let me tell you, I'm not mad at it!


Iam the creator and part of the INCROWD




But I needed a getaway with the people that can relate to my realm.


So I give you Beau Averee..


I've he's been plotting on me for so long now


Details:


He's Rich, Addictive, Elegant, Sternly Outspoken, Intelligent, Organized, Always on point, Mysterious, Seductive, Actor, and writer.


See Viper Crimson was such a wild one! he would always end up in some trouble, partying all the time, Non chalant, Rude, Never focused, Didn't give a fuck about anything!, He was a model and was always in the spotlight.


But as people mature in years, it only takes me months.


Love, Peace, And Sex
Beau Averee